Active Listening

Active listening is a type of communication strategy between two or more people that consists of paying attention to what someone is saying and attempting to understand what is being said.  Clinical research studies demonstrate that active listening can be a catalyst in one’s personal growth.  For example, children are more likely to listen to themselves if someone else allows them to speak and successfully convey their message. ^[1]

Learning how to actively listen takes time, practice, and full commitment.  Once achieved, it can build a strong foundation for positive communication resulting in a strong caregiver-child relationship by building trust throughout the lifespan. This strategy also tends to improve the quality of conversations by connecting with others on a deeper level, ^[2] which can lead to more positive and healthy relationships.^[3]

How to use this method:

• Caregivers should be on the child’s level and listen in an attentive, nonjudgmental, non-interrupting manner.
• Listeners should pay close attention to possible hidden messages and meanings contained in the verbal communication and should note all non-verbal communication from the child.^[4]
• It is important to remember that you are not giving your opinion and thoughts regarding what the child relays to you; you are paraphrasing what the child said and expressing back to the child the emotions the child conveyed.